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I asked someone who sent me a email if he could send me his picture. he replied that he would but only to my personal email as there were security problems with MM. What is he talking about? and is it a bad idea to give out my personal email?
I've had some strange Emails lately. The guy's profile is well written and they "look" educated and American. Then I get an Email with poor English and wording that does not match what was written in the profile. They all want my personal Email or want me to get an IM account. Is this a scam?
Hello, I have very low response rate. Would you please give me some feedback on what might have been wrong with a profile.
I just found your SCAMMERS/TROLLS/PERVS & GOLD DIGGER blog. How do you spot these scammers? How can I tell if someone is a scammer? Thanks and keep up the good work.
I have received quite a few "winks". When I go to profiles to read about them I get a message that they are not available - check spelling, etc. What is going on with that?
How come I don't get anybodies attention
Twice I had dates with 2 different gentlemen. The first one was very nicelooking and I liked him. We (I thought) had a good time. No kiss or anything of that nature. I just want to start out as friends. Heard from him a couple of times but nothing since. (a month). My sister said he was probably just looking to sleep with someone .... 2nd one I went out with last night and all he did was talk about his impending divorce & how bad his other 2 wives were. Other than that he was a gentlemen, had a great meal and planned on getting together today to sight see but when I called to arrange to meet him he said "we were not compatible" .... I guess I need to find out what questions to ask before ever getting to a meet & date stage. Any suggestions? Need your advice and help. Gail
He suggested that we exchange numbers & left me his number. So I email him my number. Do I call him or do I wait for him to call? I just don't get why a guy online would ask for a girls number first if he was not going to call. We even knew someone in common. I really had alot in common with this guy more than any other on this site that is what sucks!!!! Thanks for your time, Brandy
I'm a 53 year old very attractive, educated woman. I'm a lot of fun and have a great sense of humor. It seems the men that like me I don't like them. They are not at all what I am looking for. The VERY FEW men I do like just don't like me... long term...strong relationship. I'm so tired of this dating scene. I want so badly to meet that man who I adore and he adores me. I'm tired....What's wrong with me? the situation? life? getting very down.
I live in Hong Kong and have been corresponding with a guy from the United States. He will be coming to visit on 10thAugust, in the meantime, we haven't opened web cam, we've only seen each other pictures. Our email exchange has made us known each other better, he is a busy lawyer and because of time difference we never had an extensive chat online. We had one phone call a couple of weeks ago. My issue is that I dont want to do the intimate thing too soon when he's in town and I think he knows from my profile that I'm quite conservative that way. But since he's flying here and will be quite free for a few days, I don't know what to do with his ample free time. I plan to have drinks, dinner, walking in the popular places like times square, maybe go to karaoke one night, but these are mainly activities from early evening onwards. I can't expect him to wait whole day and have nothing else to do just to but if I also offer day activities, I am worried that it is going to be too much for the beginning stage. I dont want us both to be put off by the extremes, either not see each other at all with the long distance or see each other all day long when he's in town. Please help!
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